how to get a girl to like u

How to Hint for a Kiss (Guys)

2008-01-23T02:17:00.000-08:00

After reading this, you will be ready for your first or regular kiss.

Steps

Get in the middle or ending of a good, intimate conversation. If you're getting bad vibes from her, don't try and kiss her, because you will end up humiliating yourself. However, if you are getting good vibes, go for it!
Take the girl away from the group you're in, if you're in one. You don't want to kiss her in front of all of your friends! Take her to a secluded place, like behind a tree.
Look deep into her eyes. Take her hand if you are brave enough. If she wants to kiss you, she might look down and smile and or bite the very bottom of her lips.
Do one of the following things depending on how brave you are:
Ask her quietly for permission if you are unsure. It's better to wait until she's ready, otherwise it will create a very awkward situation.
Tilt your head and go in 90% and let her come the rest of the way.
Put your arms around her head or in her hair while you are kissing her. You can even wrap your arms around her and put your arms around her back. Make her comfortable, you want her to want to kiss you again!
Smile and say something after you kiss. This should depend on what you're doing; something like "Do you want to go back to the group?" or "Do you want to go out again sometime?"

Tips

Be charming to her. It will make her want to kiss you even more!
Be sure to have really really good breath. Bad breath is a sure way to being rejected.
Girls like nice-smelling colognes.
Be cuddly, if she's the kind of girl that likes it. If not give it a little space and you might score some brownie points.
If you are taking her home on a date and she is pausing at the door, this is a good sign that she wants to kiss you. If she immediately tells you good-bye and goes for the door, don't try to kiss her. That means she doesn't want to kiss you.
Hold her hand, but lightly. Do not pressure her!
She most likely wants to kiss you just as badly, so don't lose hope.
Don't tense up just go through with it.
Give her a deep look into her eyes, you can proably guess what she is thinking.
Tell her how you feel about her and see how she reacts

Warnings

Don't touch her inappropriately. This applies to most girls but some are exceptions. Note though it is NOT a first kiss move!
Be careful if you try to kiss her at school! Many schools have rules about not showing PDA's (Public Displays of Affection) on school grounds. If you really want to, make it quick, don't make it a make-out session.
Some girls are allergic to strong colognes, so be very aware of this, if she is.
Some girls don't even like the smell of colonges. It would probably be best not to wear too much on your first date.
Most girls are just OK with the smell of Axe & Tag, but not if they've smelled it a lot lately.
It gets sickening after a while! However if you forgot to shower, they wouldn't be a bad idea.
If you are one that says stupid things when you're nervous, don't! You may ruin the whole thing.

Guys, how can u look attractive~

2008-01-08T20:40:00.000-08:00

This is a totally fool-proof way to look hot. If you follow these steps you'll have no problem getting the ladies. (If you still have problems getting the ladies, then your problems go far beyond anything with which this article can help.)

Steps

Body

Exercise:

Do basic stretches and situps and pushups every morning. Lift weights three or four times a week. Walk or bicycle for 30 minutes the other days (If you ride the bus or walk to school, then you can get well excercised just walking or riding your bike to school or the bus stop). Contrary to popular belief (among men) most girls don't find overly-muscular guys attractive so don't overdo the muscle building.

Eat Healthy:

Don't eat junk food. Ok, that might be impossible for many of us. So instead, don't eat junk food often. If your diet is made up of foods with high calories (whether from fats or simple sugars) and little other nutrition (vitamins, minerals, and fiber), it will show in your hair, nails, skin, teeth and gums--not to mention your gut. Consume healthy foods frequently, and other foods in wise moderation.

Drink water daily and try and avoid soda.

Sugared sodas are the absolute worst for your body--the very definition of empty calories. While diet sodas are a better choice, club soda or seltzer water are better still if you MUST satisfy a carbonation addiction. (Club soda with nothing more added than a squeeze of lemon or lime is a delicious and crisp alternative to many sugared and diet sodas without the artifical sweeteners or the empty calories.)

Scent

Good Hygienes:

Smelling good is very important! Shower each morning. Use either a strong smelling soap or body wash. It's best if it has some kind of moisturizer in it.

Wear deodorant.

Put deodorant on your underarms to reduce odor from that area. If you are prone to sweating, wear a deodorant that includes anti-perspirant.

Wear cologne.

Don't put too much on though. Just two sprays of a masculine smelling cologne will do. If you're using a non-spray cologne, place a few drops on a cotton ball and rub the scented cotton ball around the front of your neck, and just behind your ears. Also, don't choose a scent that everyone else has, such as Axe or Old Spice. Look for something unique!

Another option on scent is to pick a lighter scent rather than somthing that sticks out. If you have a light scent on, Girls will pick up on it without being suffocated.

* Break Bad Habits: Don't smoke. It may seem "cool" but it makes you smell bad, your teeth turn yellow, you get a white coating on your tongue and it gives you bad breath. It also affects your long-term health.

Teeth and Breath

If you've neglected your teeth, go to a dentist to get a thorough cleaning and an evaluation of your oral health.
Using a soft-bristle toothbrush, brush your teeth for at least 1 minute. Be sure your toothbrush comes into contact with every tooth surface. Use a low-abrasion toothpaste or plain baking soda.
Floss your teeth after brushing. No, seriously, I mean it: be sure that floss string goes in between every tooth. If flossing has been unpleasant in the past, there are new varieties of floss that are gentler. If you haven't flossed recently, expect a foul odor to come from the floss and your mouth as you floss. Guess what? That's a concentrated form of what your breath currently smells like.
Use an ADA-approved mouth rinse to help prevent plaque and gum disease. Alternatively, use a rinse that does not contain any alcohol, but contains ingredients that promote gum health.

Hair and Nails

Have a masculine-looking haircut. Carvings and spikes are a good choice also and braids drives the ladies wild.
Most boys look good with hair gel in their hair, so gel up your hair in the morning. Gel adds body and definition to short hair.
Use a good shampoo and conditioner in the morning as well. You might be able to cut corners and buy an inexpensive shampoo, but you absolutely cannot cut corners on the conditioner. If you have dandruff, use a shampoo and conditioner designed for dandruff.

*Break Bad Habits: Don't bite your fingernails. Keep them cleaned (use a special nail brush for this) and trimmed to an appropriate length. And buffing can make them look good as well. DON'T use clear nail polish - it looks feminine and girls are turned off by that. Buffing gives your nails a clean yet masculine look.

Skin Care

Wash your face each morning with a gentle soap and a plastic wash pouf, rinse thoroughly, shave with a good razor, then wipe your face with a cotton ball soaked in toner (either with witch hazel or hydrogen peroxide), then use a non-cryogenic moisturizer. Make sure to follow the same routine before going to bed, leaving out the moisturizer if you have oily skin.
If you have mild acne, try to control it by using an acne medication containing either salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide just after you've wiped your face with toner. Dandelion sap is also a good organic way to get rid of zits. A dab from a stem of it a few times a day will get rid of the pimples.
If you have acne that does not respond to the treatments suggested in the previous step, go to a dermatologist. Clear skin makes an enormous difference in a guy's appearance. Clear skin implies good health, and is prized as a universal symbol of attractiveness worldwide.

Clothing

Conform to "rules" of your society: Dress like the cool guys.(Skater,Ghetto, Goth preppy or what ever it may be where you live)
Read magazines such as Vibe and XXL, Esquire or Details. Those magazines will show you how to dress well as far as the latest fashions are concerned. Don't forget that the basics are timeless: solid color polo shirts, jeans in blue or black, plain white and black t-shirts (with or without logos, advertisements, or insignias), blue blazers, socks in white and black, black dress lace up shoes, white sneakers. You'll always look presentable.
Shopping at corporate chains like American Eagle may make you look just like everyone else who shops at those places. Search for unusual, locally owned clothing stores for unique items to personalize your basic wardrobe. Goodwill is a great place to look, and it's inexpensive too.
Remember to wear clothing which fits well or is baggy. Clothes a size too small do not make you look thinner or smaller. Dark clothes will help you look a little thinner.

Posture

It might seem irrelevant, but having good posture will make you look confident. Many women are attracted to confidence.
Stand up straight and put your shoulders back. Pretend someone just dumped a pitcher of ice cold water down your back. That's how straight your back should be.

Miscellaneous

When you are trying to impress girls, don't do stupid and dangerous things because most of the time, the girls aren't impressed.
If you want to attract a girl, you should concentrate on being yourself. Girls like nice guys. Every girl tells you she just wants a nice guy, so be unique, obtain a talent (parlor tricks? fake ESP? creative story-telling?) and just be as charming as you can. Basically try - just try - to distinguish yourself from the billions of other males in our world. Or save yourself the headache and be yourself.

*Whatever you do, do not ignore your crush when you are with your friends; It will only make her run off and tell all her girlfriends what a disgusting, rude, ugly pig you are, and that you smell of B.O. If you want her to notice you, be courteous; Hold the door for her and her friends (discreetly, of course), defend her in an argument, send her an anonymous candy-cane at the school charity raffle, then act super nice to her the next day, etc. Just remember to treat her like a lady, and she will see you as the perfect gentlemen.

Tips

All the above steps can be condensed as follows:

Smell good.
Have a good body and good posture.
Take care of your hair and nails.
Take care of your skin and teeth and don't have chapped lips.
Dress well, make sure to read fashion magazines for men, it will be helpful.
This entire article can be summed up as such: Groom well and get your beauty rest.
Be Yourself!!

Warnings

Those people who want to look "better" than they are right now should know that they shouldn't try to be something that they're not. You should be yourself completely when you meet someone for the first time - don't be your representative.
Say you start to dress and act 'cool' as far as society is concerned, and you soon attract a member of the opposite sex that looks 'attractive.' If you were more comfortable the way you dressed and acted before, you have a problem, because you now have to maintain the act of this new personality. Eventually the discomfort and stress of living this alternate personality will be felt by your partner, who will leave you because you weren't the person she expected you to be.
Don't overdo it with hairstyling products. Use a light mixture of gel and a small amount of water to give you a nice hold without giving your hair a "plastic" look. Also hair 'fiber,' or wax provide a more controllable hold on hair, and many can be fixed if someone decides to be a jerk and mess up your hair. These are usually called 'pliable hold' products.
While trying to impress a girl, never, under any circumstances, point out your flaws if she hasn't said anything. She most likely hasn't noticed, and you are lowering her opinion of you if you do so.
Some girls don't like stereotypical brawny, manly types. If you have someone particular in mind try to understand the person a little before you become "their" ideal via an internet guide, only to find out that they think Axe smells like the dumpster, your muscles are bulgy and creepy, and your "cool" image is just another gimmick to get girls to sleep with you.
Do not wear Axe (also called Lynx in some countries) or Tag! Most girls don't like the smell of it.

31 Ways to make a girl smile (=

2008-01-07T23:29:00.000-08:00

Don’t hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause she'll feel left out.
Hold her hand at any moment . . . even if it’s just for a second.
Hug her from behind.
Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
Wrestle with her :)
Don't go hang out with your ex when she’s not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her.
If you're talking to another girl, when you're done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her.... let her know she's yours and they aren't.
Write her notes or call her just to say "hi".
Introduce her to your friends . . . as your girlfriend.
Play with her hair.
Pick her up (she loves it) =]]
Get upset if another guy touches her and she doesn't like it.
Make her laugh.
Let her fall asleep in your arms.
If she's mad at you, kiss her.
If you care about her, then TELL HER!
Every guy should give their girl 3 things: a stuffed animal (she'll hug it every time she goes to sleep), one of his sweatshirt/hoodies (she'll wear it everyday), and a pair of sweatpants (she'll most likely wear it to bed).
Treat her the same around your friends as you do when you're alone.
Look her in the eyes and smile.
Hang out with her on weekends.
Kiss her in the rain (girls love this).
Kiss her just for the heck of it.
If your listening to music, let her listen too.
Remember her birthday and get her something, even if its simple and inexpensive, it came from YOU. it means all the world to HER. it's the thought that counts.
When she gives you a present on your birthday, Christmas, or just whenever, take it and tell her you love it, even if you don't (it'll make her happy).
Always call her when you say you will, it may not seem like it, but it does hurt her and makes her think you don't care so call even if you can only talk for a minute. Girls don't necessarily have to have hour-long conversations every night but it’s nice for us to hear your voice even for a quick hello.
Give her what she deserves.
Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.
Tell her she’s beautiful, she needs to know her striving is working.
Hang out with her whenever you are free and u should be free to hang with your girl friend all the time.
If u cares about her...SHOW her!

Dating Advice for Men : lesson 5

2008-01-05T11:14:00.000-08:00

Lesson 5 : Conversation - what to say and take note

Its always important to say the right things and things that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally cannot relate to. These are some things that you can mention or should take note while striking a conversation.

Be open minded

Do not show extremism towards subjects that your date talks about. It might just be something that she cares a lot about. Do not make any crude remarks on anything she says for the same reason. You do not want to leave a bad impression so fast.

Talk about common topics

It’s a very common tip but its one of the most difficult to master. Man will naturally like to talk about themselves and their interests. However, there's no harm in talking about something in which your date has a huge passion for and you find it boring. There is also no harm talking about hot topics that she might be interested in. If you really are clueless about what to talk to her about, do some research beforehand on what to say. Her friends and appearance are good resources to start from.

Compliment and talk about her dressing

As mentioned in Lesson #1, women take great care of their dressing and man should therefore take notice of what women wear and compliment them. However, compliment her casually as you do not want her to think that you're totally captivated by her. You can follow up on her dressing by asking where she bought it and how much it cost. It helps her to feel important.

Joke

The sure way to succeed is always humor as women relates witty guys to not boring. No women likes boring guys no matter how good the impression he makes. Jokes can liven the atmosphere and creates a good impression for you.

Don't talk about sports, politics or other male gender dominated topics unless she is interested in them too

Men love their sports. Sports competitiveness brings out the excitement and happiness of men. However, most women know nuts about sports. Its no use telling your date about Michael Jordon's glorious history when she is more interested in the cute boyish basketballer on the court. Therefore, unless you want to talk about how cute that basketballer is, steer clear of sports. The same rule applies for other male gender dominated topics.

Lastly, Listen

Its no coincidence that women talks much more then men per day. Women love to talk and let their opinions be known. Therefore, it’s important to listen and appreciate what she says instead of talking all the time. It makes your date feels important.

Dating Advice for Men : lesson 4~

2008-01-03T22:58:00.000-08:00

Lesson 4 : Behavior

There's a proper way to behave in front of ladies. It is never nice to let women see the rough side of you especially on your first date. Behavior shows your character and whether your relationship can carry on. It is a further step forward after first impressions.

Do be chivalrous

Its the 21st century. No doubt that men and women have equal rights. However, there's nothing wrong to continue showing chivalry to women. Opening doors, helping to carry shopping bags, sending her home are all basic courtesy that is on the decline. However, women still loved to be pampered and there's nothing wrong with that. Stick with the ancient code of being a gentleman and you'll never be wrong.

Do treat women with respect

Do not ever make sexist or insensitive comments about women. Do not swear and curse when at the waiters just because they give bad service. Listen when your date talks and talk when she stops talking. Treat her properly and chances are you'll leave a lasting impression.

Do maintain eye contact

Eye contact is very important to show that you're interested in whatever she's talking. Its extremely disgusting if your date is talking and you are distracted by the chick that just walked by. However, its also important not to stare at her especially if you've just met her as it gives the impression that you are a pervert that is following her every action.

Don't get drunk in front of her

Being able to hold your liquor well equates to being strong in front of your mates. However, it is directly the opposite with women. Women hate drunkards as they are rowdy, noisy and totally obnoxious. They are a complete turnoff. Therefore, if possible, drink less if you're out on a date. Best of all, don't drink.

Don't get touchy too quickly

When you touch a woman, it breaks down their self defense and they will only allow this when they feel totally at ease and attracted to you. Therefore, unless she touches you or you feel totally at ease with her and that she's attracted to you. Do not touch her too quickly as she might think you only want sex.

Dating Advice for Men : lesson 3~

2008-01-03T22:44:00.000-08:00

Lesson 3 : Confidence and Success

A confident man is a good looking man. Brad pitt can wear a skirt and yet look macho. However, confidence stems from success. Success in doing whatever you do impresses girls. Woman love a man who knows what they want and what they have done. The more difficult it is to achieve the success, the more impressed the girl. Here are some tips to show your confidence and success.

Know your goals

Women loves a man with direction. It gives them a sense of security. Even if you do not have much success in your goals, knowing your goals and letting her know that is the sign of a man who is clear and far sighted. Therefore, if you do not have goals up till now, its time to start thinking.

Be yourself

Everybody should be proud of themselves. It says a lot about your confidence. If you're a goofy character, just be one in front of her instead of trying to be somebody else. A woman will love you for what you are and not what you try to be.

Take Risks, Break rules

Everybody admires risk taker. This includes women. A risk taker is seen as brave and charming as they are doing stuff ordinary people dare not do. This includes breaking conventional rules. It explains why bad boys often attract the best lookers out there.

Be knowledgeable

A knowledgeable man is seen as a confident man. A man who speaks wisdom with his every word is deem more successful then a man who craps a lot. So start ordering your newspapers and Newsweek magazines now if you have not done so.

Dating Advice for Men : lesson 2~

2008-01-02T20:21:00.000-08:00

Lesson 2 : Appearance - General

Not every man is born tall dark and handsome. In fact most are not. However, by looking presentable, every man can still capture the attention of their date. Here are some tips to look nice and presentable.

Shave before going out

No women will like the look of a rough beard or moustache sticking out from your face. Although there are the odd few who finds it sexy, chances are its better to look clean shaven and tidy. It gives a better positive image of a person who cares about the date and who takes care of oneself.

Bathe often

It not our fault that men have larger sweat glands neither is it our fault that men enjoy sports that makes us soak in sweat. However, it could be our fault if we do not shower frequently. Every woman likes his man to smell nice and look clean. So if you're the type that sweat easily, be prepared to shower more, especially before meeting your date.

Get your cologne, aftershave out

Cologne and aftershaves are not for Gays. In fact, women find men who smell nice masculine. Just like bathing often, its also important to smell nice. After all, you do not want to spoil your first kiss with your date just because you smell awful.

Smile often

A smile helps to lessen the tension, projects a lively and positive image and best of all, a person always looks the best when you're smiling. We should always be smiling as we never know who is in love with your smile. Therefore practice smiling now if you are going out on a date soon!

Do not slouched

Slouching gives a bad impression of a person that is not confident, weak and no sense of security. Therefore, do what your mum always tell you. Stand straight and be proud of your height.
6. Try to look healthyGet a tan if you look pale and sickly. Beef yourself up in the gym if you look scrawny. Go running if you're overweight and look fat. Its always important to look healthy and nice in front of your date. It projects a sunny image and women love it.

Dating Advice for Men : lesson 1~

2008-01-02T18:16:00.000-08:00

Lesson 1 : Appearance - Clothes and shoes

A women appreciates a man who looks good or at least tries to. Women take great care and effort of what they wear for different occasions and also take note of guys who do the same. Clothes is THE difference between dashing and ordinary. In addition, women do take note of shoes. It explains why they have a whole shoe rack full of shoes. Therefore, choose your shoes wisely too. Although different women have different taste in choice of clothes for men, it is generally acceptable to look neat and tidy.

Here are some ways to achieve it....

Dressed Suitably

Formal wear are for formal occasions such as dinner in restaurants. T-shirts and jeans are for simple date at the mall. Shorts and singlets are for jogging in your nearby park and so on. You get the picture.

Iron your clothes

Its not a very good image to portray if your clothes are crumpled and you go out on a date. A woman will think that you are lazy and do not place any importance on the date.

Do NOT wear clothes with vulgarities, sexually suggestive images or words

We know that these clothes might be your favorite as it is very cheeky or portrays your style that you do not give a damn what's happening around. However, its a definite no no for dates as its rude, insensitive and too explicit for any potential girlfriends/wives to take it.

Go for well known , respected brands

We do not want you to show off. However, it is always nice to wear something that lets you get noticed by your date. If branded stuff is not your thing, at least get a simple respected brand that do not portray you as a cheapskate.

Ask another women for opinion

Lets face it. Man are pretty hopeless at fashion. That's why we hate shopping.(The clothes look the same anyway) To understand what is appropriate, what is nice on you, it is always good to get a female's opinion. After all, your date is another female and it is your date that is going to judge you on your date.

how can u get a girl like u want~

2007-12-27T23:09:00.000-08:00

We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?

Step One 1

We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know... the one with the sweet personality, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept" guys... but how can you get her to like you?
While men are primarily attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants out of life.
Ironically, what this means then is that the best way for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has EARNED you.
That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a position of neediness.

Step Two 2

So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular woman are:
- Nonchalance.
- Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are equally as great as she is.) The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also eliminate neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict yourself only to dating "that one special girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's irreplaceable!" Having an abundance of women in your life will solve that problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof" phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than men.

Step Three 3

Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong for her.
Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself that there are LOTS of other women out there who are just as wonderful as that girl you really like. If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her power over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a girl to like you.